Well said.dtougas wrote:I don't think it is any more dangerous that taking your family on a road trip in the car, in fact it may even be safer.
walkinTas wrote:.
Number 1 important thing as a parent: spend time with your kids. Number 2 important thing as a parent: talk to your kids and actually listen to what they have to say. Number 3 important thing: do things with your kids so they have good memories of their childhood. Looks like you've got it covered.
My dad told me once that you should do something memorable with the family every year. That way when you looked back over the years you can remember each year by the things you've done. I think my dad was a smart guy!
dtougas wrote:I don't think it is any more dangerous that taking your family on a road trip in the car, in fact it may even be safer.
Clearly there are a lot of things to consider. The Season, gear, unexpected weather, relative fitness, experience, individual capability, etc, etc. This is true with or without a 7 year old. Taking a 7 year old walking on the OLT is not in itself a dangerous thing to do. Plenty of kids have done the walk. Not paying proper attention to all the other considerations might well be dangerous - very silly at the least. So, yes, read the precautions and prepare well.Nuts wrote:Obviously, with little left to say once the decision is made, surely individual experience and possible pitfalls deserve a mention! It is up to the reader to decide if the mention automatically makes the writer a 'naysayer' (takes all sorts), I dont see it as anything negative. ?
And if, after reading and considering and preparing, you still have doubts about your son's ability to cope, then don't go. Do something where you are more certain he can cope. The OLT will still be there.walkinTas wrote:So, yes, read the precautions and prepare well.
I don't think our differences here are all that big. I agree with you that preparation is important. There is a risk when one over generalises. I actually clipped the quote from dtougas a bit too much because he began with the clause "Provided that you are prepared", and that's the key here. Know what you are up against, be prepared and be sure you can handle it.Nuts wrote:And I guess thats the point where I disagree
juju wrote:It you wait 'till your kids are - how old is old enough?
Nuts wrote:To me, it is not enough to simply 'hug a tree & blow a whistle', they need to be able to carry and (have the basic ability to use) equipment that will keep them sheltered overnight.
RodLawlor wrote:Just to add some balance, Nuts has asked what you get from a trip like this, that you don't get from an overnighter. Well, I know my kids and my wife and I get a great sense of family. We learn (need) to be tolerant of each other, and work together to get stuff done. You can't hide from stuff on a ten day trip like you can on an overnighter. I know it gives me time to put away my impatience, and let kids do things their way. We get to play games that we don't have time for otherwise. We listen to each other better, and are more appreciative of each other. We talk about a broader range of things, more deeply than on a two day trip. We have time to get into a place more. We get a greater sense of adventure and achievement than on a two day trip.
Rod
walkinTas wrote:My dad told me once that you should do something memorable with the family every year. That way when you looked back over the years you can remember each year by the things you've done. I think my dad was a smart guy!
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