Happy Pirate wrote:Interesting thread.
It's funny. I'm sure we would ALL like to encourage more women to get out bush and particularly to brave the wilds alone.
And you'd have to be an idiot not to aknowledge that women hiking alone, generally, are fearful of and prone to much more harrassment and intimidation than solo men or groups.
And yet somehow, when a solo-hiking woman offers her genuine perspective (so rarely heard) her opinion has to be constantly argued against, contradicted, mansplained and finally hijacked by posts of ninja death-punches.
Thanks Guys,
kinda proves her point
Steve
(OK come at me;-))
Stroller wrote:All males are sinful. : P
Avatar wrote:"...for man is at the bottom of his soul only wicked, but woman is base." Nietzsche, "Thus Spake Zarathustra". Discuss.
corvus wrote:Is it just me that thinks this post is deviating from BW to boredom??
Avatar wrote:"...for man is at the bottom of his soul only wicked, but woman is base." Nietzsche, "Thus Spake Zarathustra". Discuss.
puredingo wrote:It's a funny thing...."there's just enough religion in the world to make man hate each other but not enough to make them love".....
jdeks wrote:... "Do these girls seriously not realize why they feel such a struggle, trying to push an agenda that just shoots them in the foot???". .
fallsnfungi wrote:what if the staring man was trying to add a name to the face? or was wondering why everytime he looked up she was staring at him ? I can totally understand the bad feeling you would have gotten in the stomach, it must of been bad enough to cancel your travel plans
Suz wrote:'be mindful and don't make women unnecessarily afraid because they have genuine reason to fear you'
Suz wrote:Can I just ask all the nice guys to NOT stare at women you see while hiking - especially if they are hiking alone.
I had this experience for the first time in the Snowys last week and it was freaky. Woke up at Bradley's and O'briens Hut and then were about 8-10 of us there. Breaking camp, every time I turned around there was this one guy staring at me. I'm not exactly a sight to behold and I don't know what the guy's deal was…but as an advice to all men in the wilderness, PLEASE DO NOT STARE. It doesn't matter if you mean no harm, I cannot tell what your intentions are. Never spoke to the guy but I had spoken to his mtn biking partner and found out we were actually due to camp at O'Keefes hut the same night (I bailed) and that made it even worse. The thought of re-encountering a potential weirdo in the bush who I knew could over power me if he wanted to was not fun.
I'm sure for women with more conventional appeal this happens more often. A stare is like a threat. Please don't do it.
north-north-west wrote:Mutual and consensual. Entirely different situation.
corvus wrote:What constitutes a Stare please?
stry wrote:corvus wrote:What constitutes a Stare please?
Many of the things that trigger a woman's highly evolved instincts and threat assessment skills cannot be clinically and logically explained - particularly to many men.
This does not invalidate feelings and responses resulting from the almost continual use of those skills.
It has been my experience on many occasions that if a woman has misgivings about people, those misgivings are not baseless, although explanation of the misgivings may be difficult, sometimes impossible.
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